The classic spiritual pendant for attracting love is rose quartz, worn close to the heart. For passion, wear garnet. For a new chapter in love, moonstone or green aventurine. For harmony with someone you already love, try rhodonite, lapis lazuli or amazonite. Amethyst and selenite keep a home calm, and citrine, peridot and jade are for self-love and joy. Below, each stone has its meaning, who it suits and the real Rivendell pendant to match, with prices checked in October 2026. Prefer a ring? Jump to our love rings for garnet and moonstone.
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The 12 love and harmony pendants at a glance:
- Rose quartz: love in every form, from about $20.
- Garnet: passion and devotion, $65.
- Moonstone: new love and intuition, $100.
- Green aventurine: luck in love, about $20.
- Rhodonite: forgiveness and making up, about $20.
- Lapis lazuli: honest talk, about $20.
- Amazonite: seeing both sides, $27.
- Amethyst: calm and peace at home, from about $20.
- Selenite: a clear, light heart, $28.
- Citrine: joy and sunny self-love, $75.
- Peridot: a fresh start, $70.
- Jade: harmony and good fortune, about $15.
Pendants for attracting romantic love ✨
1. Rose quartz, the stone of love
Rose quartz is the pendant people reach for first, and for good reason. In crystal practice it is the Stone of Love, linked with the heart chakra and every kind of love: romance, friendship, family and the kindness you owe yourself. Wearers say it softens old hurts and makes room for someone new.
Choose it if you are not sure where to start. The rose quartz moon pendant ($27) is a soft pink crescent on a waxed cord. A rose quartz point pendant is about $20, and the sterling silver point is $38. Rose quartz is a 7 on the Mohs scale and generally stable in light, so it is easy to wear every day.
2. Garnet, for passion and devotion
Garnet is the stone of a love that runs warm. Its deep red is worn to keep the spark alive in a long relationship, and to call in passion when you are ready for it. It is also January's birthstone, which makes it a sweet gift for a January partner.
Our garnet silver pendant is a faceted round stone in sterling silver, $65. Garnets are about 6.5 to 7.5 in hardness, so they handle daily wear well.
3. Moonstone, for new love 🌙
Moonstone is the moon's own stone, linked with hope, intuition and new beginnings. People wear it when a new relationship is starting, or when they want to trust their own heart a little more. Our moonstone long oval pendant in sterling silver is $100. Moonstone has poor toughness, so a pendant suits it better than a busy bracelet. Our moonstone meaning guide tells the rest of its story.
4. Green aventurine, for luck in love
Green aventurine is the lucky stone. It sits with the heart chakra, and people wear it for luck, a light heart and the courage to say yes to a first date. Its gentle sparkle comes from tiny flakes of a green mica called fuchsite. The green aventurine point pendant is about $20, with a waxed cord and gift box.
Want a wider look at stones for new romance? Our guide to crystals for attracting new love goes beyond pendants.
Pendants for harmony in a relationship 🔮
5. Rhodonite, for forgiveness
Rhodonite is pink with black veins, and its name comes from the Greek for "rosy". In crystal practice it is the stone of forgiveness and making up. Wear it after a quarrel, or through a season when love needs patience.
The rhodonite point pendant is about $20 and comes on a card with its meaning, so it makes a gentle "I'm sorry" gift. Our forgiveness crystals guide has more ideas.
6. Lapis lazuli, for honest talk
Lapis is the deep blue stone of truth. In chakra practice it belongs to the throat, so people wear it for honest, kind conversations with a partner. It has been treasured for thousands of years. Lapis even sits in the inlay of Tutankhamun's burial mask. The lapis lazuli point pendant is about $20.
7. Amazonite, for seeing both sides
Amazonite is a soft sea-green stone with white mottling. Crystal lovers wear it to calm a heated moment and to see the other person's point of view. It is a green variety of microcline feldspar. It is a little softer than quartz, and gem experts rate it well suited to pendants. The amazonite moon pendant (New Zealand store) is $27.
8. Amethyst, for a calm, peaceful home
Amethyst is the great settler. People wear it for calm, steady love and peace at home, and many keep it close for calmer sleep. The rough amethyst wire-wrapped pendant (NZ store) ($32) has an earthy, natural look. The polished amethyst point pendant (NZ store) is about $20. Or browse the whole amethyst range.
9. Selenite, for a clear and light heart
Selenite is named after selene, the Greek word for moon. In crystal practice it clears heavy energy, so wearers reach for it when love feels tangled. The selenite chakra pendant is $28. Selenite is very soft and dissolves in water, so never wear it in the shower.
Pendants for self-love and joy ☀️
10. Citrine, for sunny self-love
Citrine is called the Light Maker. People wear it for joy, confidence and abundance, which is why it is also the merchant's stone for attracting wealth. Most citrine on the market is heat-treated amethyst, so it carries a little amethyst calm too. The citrine oval faceted pendant in sterling silver is $75.
11. Peridot, for a fresh start
Peridot is the bright green stone of renewal, compassion and good cheer. Wear it when you are ready to let an old story go and begin again. It is August's birthstone, so it suits an August partner too.
Our peridot pendant is a square faceted stone in sterling silver, $70.
12. Jade, for harmony and good fortune
Jade is linked with harmony and good fortune, and a jade circle feels like a little wish for wholeness. The jade donut pendant on cord is about $15. Jade is exceptionally tough, so it shrugs off daily wear. Not every jade pendant is New Zealand pounamu. Pounamu is taonga with its own Māori meanings, explained in our jade vs greenstone guide.
Prefer a ring? Spiritual rings for love and attraction 💎
The same stones work on your hand. Garnet and moonstone are the favourite love rings, and a ring keeps your intention in sight all day. The garnet delicate sterling silver ring is $50. The moonstone oval ring with an open frame is $75.
Moonstone dislikes hard knocks, so take a moonstone ring off for gardening and the gym. Browse more in our sterling silver rings, and check your size with our ring size guide.
How to wear a love pendant 🕯️
Try this small ritual on the night you first wear it.
- Hold it. Cup the pendant in your hand and take three slow breaths.
- Name the love. Say quietly what you are calling in: "a kind partner", "peace at home" or "more love for me".
- Wear it over your heart. Many wearers like a cord or chain that lets the stone rest near the heart.
- Refresh it. Leave it in the moonlight once a month and repeat your words.
Most of our crystal point and moon pendants come on a waxed cord. For a silver piece, add our stainless steel chain (about $10). Our pendant cleansing guide has more ways to refresh a stone.
Caring for your love pendant
| Stone | Hardness | Cleaning | Watch out for |
|---|---|---|---|
| Rose quartz | 7 | Warm soapy water | Ultrasonic and steam cleaners |
| Amethyst, citrine | 7 | Warm soapy water | Long spells in strong sun can fade the colour |
| Moonstone | 6 to 6.5 | Warm soapy water only | Knocks, heat and sudden temperature changes |
| Peridot | 6.5 to 7 | Warm soapy water | Rapid heat |
| Lapis, rhodonite, amazonite | 5 to 6.5 | Soft brush, mild soap, warm water | Steam, ultrasonic cleaners and chemicals |
| Selenite | 1.5 to 2 | A damp cloth or very quick rinse, never a soak; pat dry | Soaking, heat and scrubbing |
Care facts come from GIA for amethyst, citrine and peridot, and from the International Gem Society for lapis, rhodonite, amazonite and selenite. Take any pendant off before you swim or shower. Waxed cords and soft stones both last longer when they stay dry.
Choosing a piece
Prices checked in October 2026:
- $20 and under: the jade donut pendant is about $15. Rose quartz, green aventurine, rhodonite, lapis and amethyst point pendants are about $20 each, with a cord and gift box or card.
- $25 to $40: rose quartz and amazonite moon pendants ($27), the selenite chakra pendant ($28), the rough amethyst pendant ($32) and the rose quartz silver point ($38).
- Keepsakes, $50 to $100: the garnet ring ($50), garnet pendant ($65), peridot pendant ($70), citrine pendant ($75), moonstone ring ($75) and moonstone pendant ($100).
Buying for two? Rose quartz for the heart and rhodonite for patience make a gentle pair. For a broader stone guide, see our five crystals for attracting love. For pendants with a different job, try pendants for motivation and protection.
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FAQ
Which pendant is best for attracting love?
Rose quartz is the classic pendant for attracting love. It is the Stone of Love in crystal practice, linked with the heart chakra and every kind of love. Wear it close to your heart and set your intention when you first put it on. For passion, choose garnet instead.
What are the best spiritual rings for love and attraction?
Garnet and moonstone are the favourite stones for love rings. Garnet is worn for passion and devotion, and moonstone for new love and intuition. A ring keeps your intention in sight, so you see it every time you reach for your cup of tea.
Which crystal pendant helps keep a relationship harmonious?
Rhodonite, lapis lazuli and amazonite are the harmony stones. Rhodonite is worn for forgiveness, lapis for honest talk and amazonite for seeing both sides. Amethyst brings calm to the whole home. Choose the one that matches what your relationship needs most right now.
How do I charge a love pendant?
Many wearers leave their pendant in the moonlight overnight, ideally on a full moon. In the morning, hold it for three breaths and say what love you are calling in. Repeat it once a month, or whenever the stone feels like it needs a fresh start.
Can I wear my love pendant in the shower?
It is best to take it off first. Selenite dissolves in water, and waxed cords last longer when dry. Quartz stones like rose quartz and amethyst handle a gentle wash with warm soapy water. Then put your pendant back on and let it keep your heart company all day.
Sources
Gem facts and care: GIA pages on rose quartz, amethyst, citrine, moonstone, peridot and jade; International Gem Society pages on garnet, lapis lazuli, rhodonite, amazonite, aventurine and selenite. Prices and stock checked on 19 October 2026.